Do you find yourself stuck in the friends zone with a woman that you like?
Do you have a hard time getting a woman to see you as more then just a friend?
In this article were going to take a look at 5 tips that will help you become more then just a friend.
Tip #1: Physical Closeness
Most men get labeled as a friend because of the lack of physical closeness with a woman. The sooner you start touching her the better. Obviously, you don't touch her just anywhere. You start with safe areas and then work your way to more intimate touching.
The idea is to keep progressing things forward on an intimate level. Touching her arm, her shoulder, sitting close together, and accidentally brushing into her are safe ways to get it started. From there you keep going. If she likes it she will play along.
Tip #2: Flirt With Her
Most men think being romantic is flirting. They buy her drinks, cook her a great dinner, do favors for her, and compliment her all the time. None of that stuff is really flirting. That stuff is just romance and being nice. Nothing wrong with that once an awhile.
During the early stages you have to flirt with her. You should actually keep flirting with her forever. The best way to do that is through teasing or simple banter. This is fun, playful, and creates sexual tension.
You: I like your smile.
Her: Thank you.
You: But I like your friends smile even more.
Her: Hey!
Tip #3: Not Being Her Little Favor Boy
There are many women in this world who will use you for only when they need you. They usually need you when they have a problem. She broke up with her boyfriend, got in fight with her friend or family member, needs something fixed, or wants you to take her out for the night because she is bored.
You want a woman who wants to be with you because she is attracted to you. None of those reasons above are good reasons. Don't bother spending time with a woman unless she wants to have fun with you. You will have to trust me on this one.
Tip #4: See Her Less & Talk Less
Sometimes you can get to know someone too fast.
- The more she knows about you the less curious she is about you.
- The more she sees you the less she will appreciate you.
But the more she misses you the more she is going to want to see you. When you first start dating don't over do it. When your trying to turn a friend into a lover try seeing her less. Keep things to about one meeting per week.
Tip #5: Date More Women
The more effort you put into one woman the more you think you like that woman. There are other women that you are attracted to. It's your job to go out and meet those women.
This does a number of things.
- It opens your eyes to other women.
- It makes you more challenging.
- Seeing other women attracted to you makes more women attracted to you.
There are probably other things I can't think of right now.
Conclusion
These 5 tips will help you a great deal. The key is to actually use them. What you will often find is that friend will come chasing after you. She will be the one who wants to be more then friends. But will you still want to be more then friends?
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