As happens to a lot of guys, you got dumped - but now you don't know how to get your ex-girlfriend back. It seems impossible. One moment you were happy as can be, the next you have fallen into confusion and despair. Once you get over that initial shock, however, there are a few things you can do to get you back on the path to her heart.
You Are Your Own Man
The first thing you need to remember is to be strong. You are your own man and your ex does not define you. This kind of independence is essential if you want to not only win back her heart, but also her respect. If you go crawling back to her like a blubbering idiot, you will just look desperate and unattractive. Unless your ex is a control freak that revels in having some sort of power over you, she will not fall for the 'crawling back on your knees' routine. Women respect a strong, confident man who has a good head on his shoulders. You need to be that man.
Play It Cool
A casual attitude goes hand-in-hand with being your own man. When you set out to get your ex back, you need to approach it not as a jilted lover, but as a completely new man. Approach her as you would a woman you didn't know, but were interested in getting to know better. Be friendly, not pushy or needy. Just play everything cool. It's a fine line, but you need to demonstrate to her that you are interested, but not desperate.
Get Out More
On that note, it's also important that you go on with your life. Go out with your friends and have a good time. If you and your ex have friends in common, that may work to your advantage. In addition to it being good for your mental health to go on with your life, you want her to know that you aren't sitting at home crying every night. This works in two way: one, she knows that you are strong as an individual and two, this kind of aloofness may also intrigue her and draw her to you out of curiosity.
Do You Want Her Back?
Though these kind of 'dating games' are fun and exciting, it also very important that you be honest. You need to honestly assess whether or not you want this girl back and if you could really make it work. If so, you need to be completely honest in all further dealings with her. Though you need to be honest, you don't need to gush your emotions all over her when you are together. Rein those emotions in a bit; maybe let them out in a trickle. As was said before, play it cool.
Conclusion
This all sounds complicated doesn't it? Well, no one ever said it was going to be easy. If you want to go back and get your ex-girlfriend back into your life, it is essential that you make some changes. You can't just be the same old guy she broke up with, you need to evolve into the guy she wants, while at the same time remaining true to yourself. With any luck, the ideas presented here will tell you how to get your ex-girlfriend back.
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